making a plan

Mornings are hard.

Mornings are hard.

 

     It doesn’t matter what your family looks like or what the responsibilities of your mornings are, mornings are hard. My normal morning includes getting seven people, including myself, up, dressed, fed, in the truck, and headed down the driveway by 7:30. Then, I drive to town where I drop off four children at three different schools by 8:05.

 

It is an adventure. Every morning.

 

     In the last year, I have come up with a pretty good system to keep the family as a whole on time. But before I tell you about that, I want you to tell you something else first. There has been more than one morning that I got into the truck with wet hair, no makeup on, my shoes untied, and a loaf of raisin bread in my hand. As we are driving down the dirt road, the kids are putting on socks and shoes, hopefully they grabbed two of each that match, looking for backpacks, and yelling about missing sweatshirts and coats. I would open the bag of raisin bread, pulling out one slice at a time, and toss it behind me into the back seat, hoping it would make contact with the child who was strapped into a car seat in the third row. This happened more than I would like to admit.  

 

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Shoe Problem

I think I had a hard day today.

After working full time since I was 19 (I'm not tell you how long ago that was)  I quit my job to stay home with my kids full time. Now to be honest I never thought staying at home was going to be easy, not for a second, and I knew that I would find new things that are hard.   What I didn't expect is how often I would be stumped with a problem that I just didn't know how to solve and I'm pretty sure I did not handle well.   Like today, we have a seemingly epic shoe problem.  There are 6 of us who wear shoes every day. That's 12 feet, and each foot has no less than 4 shoes that fit it, which means that  there is a minimum estimate of 48 shoes in my house at any time.

Now you would think with all those shoes it would be pretty easy to find at least 2 that fit your feet in any given moment, Especially with the "easy toss-them-in-this-bucket" system I have right by the front door. Nope. Still can't find any shoes, ever.

Today after for the 9th time of telling my older boys to put their shoes away so they could find them when they needed them, AND I didn't have to trip over them, I kinda snapped.
I picked up 4 sneakers and called their names as I walked to the front door. Then as they watched I stepped out onto the front porch and hurled the shoes one at a time as far as I could into the woods. I'm not proud of it, and I don't really think it did any good, except make the kids laugh and also maybe point out to me that I might need a different approach to my day if shoes are pushing me that close to the edge.

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